The Dutch culture through the eyes of an expat

Blog | 16 July 2025

Have you recently arrived in the Netherlands as an expat? Or are you moving soon for work or study? Be prepared for some surprising cultural differences you might encounter as an expat.

At Hello Housing, we rent homes in two major Dutch expat cities; The Hague and Rotterdam. We interact with internationals from all over the world on daily bases and hear first hand how the Dutch culture is experiences by expats. One thing is certain: Dutch culture is unique and can take some time getting used to. But in this blog post, we'll walk you through what to expect!

 

Cycling above all!

For expats from warmer climates, it's a real mystery; why would anyone cycle anywhere in strong winds and heavy rain? The answer: because you can. And because, especially in cities, it's fast, efficient and cheap. In major cities like The Hague and Rotterdam, cycling is the way to get around.

  • Grocery shopping? Just hang your bags on the handlebars!
  • Going somewhere with friends? One of you just hops on the back!
  • Rain? time to throw on your poncho!
  • Taking the kids to school? Yep, on that bike you go!

Cycling is such a vital part of daily life in the Netherlands. At Hello Housing we don't just help you rent a home, we also advise on bike friendly neighbourhoods and where to safely park you bicycle.

 

Being direct is not rude

The Dutch are knows for their no-nonsense attitude. You won't often hear subtle hints or polite avoidance. Dutch people say what they mean. Asked someone's opinion? Expect an honest answer. You may even get their opinion without asking, free of charge.

Questions like 'Why are you so quiet?' or 'wouldn't it be better to do it this way?' aren't meant to offend, they come from a place of openness and honesty. For expats from countries with more indirect communication, like many Asian cultures, this can feel blunt or uncomfortable at first. But rest assured: Dutch people generally have the best of intentions when being direct.

 

Act normal, that's crazy enough

The classic Dutch saying 'doe maar normaal, dan doe je al gek genoeg' is no joke. The Dutch aren't about bragging or dramatic behaviour. Modesty is seen as a virtue. Whether you drive a luxury car, speak five languages or have travelled the world, you probably won't get much applause. The Dutch are more likely to value you for who you are as a person than for what you've accomplished.

 

Plans are plans

One thing internationals often notice: everything, even a simple coffee with a friend, must be scheduled. Just dropping by spontaneously? It's not really the norm. And if something is set in the calendar. Plans are plans & time is time. Expats from more southern countries often find this surprising, as spontaneity is considered a form of hospitality where they're from. In the Netherlands you are more than welcome to come by as well, just let them know you are visiting in advance.

Hello Housing Tip: Whether it's a social gathering or a more formal appointment like a house viewing, try to be on time. And if you can't make it on time, or you have to cancel. Just give them a quick call. It's much appreciated.

 

A healthy work-life balance is sacred

The Dutch work hard, no doubt about that. But when time's up, the time's up! The laptop closes and it's time for family, sports, a drink on the terrace or just some well-deserved rest. Expats often appreciate how seriously Dutch people take their free time. And rightly so, like is about more than just work.

 

That's not all...

There are many other 'quirky' Dutch habits that surprise internationals. Still curious? Here is a quick list of other typical Dutch things.

  • Bringing a cheese sandwich to work every day. It's easy to make, filling and affordable.
  • Open curtains. Dutch homes often have wide open curtains, which surprises many expats who aren't used to this level of openness.
  • Circular birthday parties. Everyone sitting in a circle, passing around a plate with cubes of cheese and slices of sausage. A truly Dutch celebration.
  • Neighbourhood barbecues. In summer, you often see whole streets and neighbours coming together for a well-organized BBQ.
  • The Dutch nod. you may have not noticed it yet, but now you will. Instead of a verbal greeting, many Dutch people just give a quick nod with the head when passing each other in the streets.
  • Sending a 'Tikkie'. If someone pays anything for you, you'll likely receive a Tikkie payment request to settle the bill.

 

Ready to move to the Netherlands?

Now that you are aware of the (sometimes strange) habits of the Dutch, you're well prepared for your time here! Still looking for a rental home in The Hague or Rotterdam? Hello Housing makes it easy! No confusing procedures. No stress. Just clear communication and a helpful team ready to welcome you to our beautiful little country.

Check out our available properties here and discover how great life in the Netherlands can be!

Article by

Elze van Ramselaar

Lettings Coordinator

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