Blog | 16 July 2025
At Hello Housing, we rent homes in two major Dutch expat cities; The Hague and Rotterdam. We interact with internationals from all over the world on daily bases and hear first hand how the Dutch culture is experiences by expats. One thing is certain: Dutch culture is unique and can take some time getting used to. But in this blog post, we'll walk you through what to expect!
For expats from warmer climates, it's a real mystery; why would anyone cycle anywhere in strong winds and heavy rain? The answer: because you can. And because, especially in cities, it's fast, efficient and cheap. In major cities like The Hague and Rotterdam, cycling is the way to get around.
Cycling is such a vital part of daily life in the Netherlands. At Hello Housing we don't just help you rent a home, we also advise on bike friendly neighbourhoods and where to safely park you bicycle.
The Dutch are knows for their no-nonsense attitude. You won't often hear subtle hints or polite avoidance. Dutch people say what they mean. Asked someone's opinion? Expect an honest answer. You may even get their opinion without asking, free of charge.
Questions like 'Why are you so quiet?' or 'wouldn't it be better to do it this way?' aren't meant to offend, they come from a place of openness and honesty. For expats from countries with more indirect communication, like many Asian cultures, this can feel blunt or uncomfortable at first. But rest assured: Dutch people generally have the best of intentions when being direct.
The classic Dutch saying 'doe maar normaal, dan doe je al gek genoeg' is no joke. The Dutch aren't about bragging or dramatic behaviour. Modesty is seen as a virtue. Whether you drive a luxury car, speak five languages or have travelled the world, you probably won't get much applause. The Dutch are more likely to value you for who you are as a person than for what you've accomplished.
One thing internationals often notice: everything, even a simple coffee with a friend, must be scheduled. Just dropping by spontaneously? It's not really the norm. And if something is set in the calendar. Plans are plans & time is time. Expats from more southern countries often find this surprising, as spontaneity is considered a form of hospitality where they're from. In the Netherlands you are more than welcome to come by as well, just let them know you are visiting in advance.
Hello Housing Tip: Whether it's a social gathering or a more formal appointment like a house viewing, try to be on time. And if you can't make it on time, or you have to cancel. Just give them a quick call. It's much appreciated.
The Dutch work hard, no doubt about that. But when time's up, the time's up! The laptop closes and it's time for family, sports, a drink on the terrace or just some well-deserved rest. Expats often appreciate how seriously Dutch people take their free time. And rightly so, like is about more than just work.
There are many other 'quirky' Dutch habits that surprise internationals. Still curious? Here is a quick list of other typical Dutch things.
Now that you are aware of the (sometimes strange) habits of the Dutch, you're well prepared for your time here! Still looking for a rental home in The Hague or Rotterdam? Hello Housing makes it easy! No confusing procedures. No stress. Just clear communication and a helpful team ready to welcome you to our beautiful little country.
Check out our available properties here and discover how great life in the Netherlands can be!